We’re 1 month in 2018 already, and I started out failing miserably at posting 9 times during January (managed to write and produce only 2 posts). Still, those 2 posts mean a lot to me and were carefully thought-out and written to add something to the conversation, rather than just some babble about my outfit of choice. This is a shift I introduced to you about in my end of year reflection post; one that is proving to be really challenging and so nurturing at the same time.

You see, this is my thing: writing, taking photos that tell a story. Make at least one small impact into the world. Having conversations that matter. Addressing the important and current. Writing is my savior. It’s one of those things that shaped me into who I am today. That thing that made me feel brave and courageous, that gave me a voice and an opinion. I hate confrontation and still I’m a firm believer of conflict. Because when conflict happens, so does change, improvement and progress. This is why I blog, this is why this space exists.

I haven’t come here looking for fame, recognition or money. I currently couldn’t care less about monetizing my blog and making sponsored posts. Reading content like this from bloggers I utterly adore makes me feel bored and lied to (that is, only when it’s so clear that it’s not a great fit for the blogger and that creativity ends up being shoved back into the last place), so why should I indulge?

No. I want to talk about the meaty, messy, nasty stuff.

I want to address what is wrong with the world and what are we doing (or not) to change it. I want my voice to be heard, and yours too! I want to make fashion fun again, an expression of your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, moods. I want each day to become more honest, more authentic, in a world that tells me that being so brings unwanted consequences. I want to prove to you that being a work-in-progress is totally okay, that no one has it all figured out, that it’s okay to be flawed.

What I’m wearing

Sunglasses are from Claire’s (old)
Choker is from Todo Moda
Biker jacket is from Zara (old)
Stripped T-shirt is from Le Utthe
Culotte denim pants are from Zara (old)
Red patent sandals are from Lady Stork

I don’t want to show you only my best angles. Because we all have those ones we don’t like and don’t look flattering like the media wants us to believe. But it’s real, it’s still us. My bloated stomach is still mine, and it represents me, as much as the world is trying to make me hate it so much.

I want to own myself as a whole and show you that it’s okay to own yours too. I want to own how colorful my clothes are, the amount of prints and textures I can pull off in one same outfit, and my sandals that go perfectly well with frilly socks. All of this, while some people believe it’s poor taste and super tacky, is perfectly okay with me because they make me who I am. I’m “the girl who wears the colors of the rainbow” at the office, and that can’t make me any more prouder! My wardrobe is made out of pieces I LOVE, not timeless, capsule wardrobe-worthy pieces that apparently I should own (if I own a plain white T-shirt, call it a miracle!).

I started off 2018 feeling more confident, snarkier and sexier. I feel like I own my body, my thoughts and everything that comes in and out of my soul. I can own my flaws, make jokes about them, and leave the room feeling unaffected. I can stand next to a model at a shooting and feel like her body is perfectly okay and so is mine.

I guess I can say I started the year with the right foot in ♥.

En español:

Ya pasamos el primer mes del 2018, y yo ya estoy incumpliendo mi meta de postear 9 veces durante Enero (solamente pude producir y escribir para 2 posteos). Aún así, esos 2 posteos significan mucho para mí y fueron cuidadosamente pensados y escritos para agregar algo importanta a la conversación que estamos teniendo constantemente en Internet. Prefiero eso antes de escribir un montón acerca de mi look elegido del día. Este es un cambio que ya les había planteado en mi posteo de reflexión de fin de año; un cambio que claramente me está resultando muy desafiante pero enriquecedor al mismo tiempo.

Y es que esto es lo mío: escribir, sacar fotos que cuentan una historia. Hacer aunque sea un pequeño impacto en el mundo. Entablar conversaciones que importen. Hablar de lo importante y actual. El acto de escribir me ha salvado en más de una ocasión. Es una de esas actividades que me han transformado en la persona que soy hoy. Eso que me dio valor y coraje, que me dio una voz y una opinión. Odio el drama y la confrontación, pero sin embargo sigo pensando que el conflicto ES necesario. Porque donde surge un conflicto, también surge el cambio, la mejora y el progreso. Es por esto que escribo y este espacio existe.

No vine a este blog con delirios de fama, grandeza ni dinero. Dios, no me podría importar menos monetizar este blog en este momento, ni hacer posteos esponsoreados. Leer este último tipo de contenido de parte de bloggers que adoro a veces me hace sentirme aburrida y como que me mienten (claro esta, esto me pasa cuando claramente la marca elegida por el blogger no es compatible con su estilo y entonces la creatividad queda en último lugar), asi que ¿por qué debería meterme en eso?

No. Yo quiero hablar acerca de todos esos temas desagradables, pesados y controversiales.

Quiero hablar de todo lo que para mí está mal con el mundo y lo que estamos haciendo (o no) para cambiarlo. Quiero que mi voz sea escuchada, ¡así como las de ustedes también! Quiero hacer que la moda sea divertida de nuevo, una expresión de nuestros sentimientos, pensamientos, creencias y estados de ánimo. Quiero cada día ser un poco más honesta, más auténtica, en un mundo que me dice que esto trae consecuencias nefastas. Quiero probar que ser un proyecto de persona está bien, que no tienen que tener todo planificado ni saber todo, y que está bien tener defectos.

No quiero mostarles solo mis mejores ángulos. Porque todos sabemos los que no nos gustan o no nos favorecen, como los medios nos hacen creer. Pero esos ángulos son tan reales como nosotros mismos. Mi panza hinchada sigue siento mío y me representa, aunque el mundo me diga una y otra vez que la tengo que odiar y repudiar.

Quiero ser 100% dueña de mi cuerpo y que sepan que uds también son dueños del suyo. Quiero adueñarme de lo colorida que es mi ropa, de la cantidad de estampados y texturas que puedo combinar un un solo outfit, y de lo mucho que me gusta llevar sandalias con medias. Todo esto, aunque la gente lo considera de super mal gusto, para mi está perfectamente ok porque me hacen quien soy. Soy “la chica que usa todos los colores del arcoiris” en la oficina, ¡y no puedo estar más orgullosa de eso! Mi placard está lleno de prendas que AMO PROFUNDAMENTE. Son muy tendencia, super intervenidas. Nada de básicos ni prendas de cápsula como dicen que debería tener (si tengo una remera blanca lisa, ¡es un milagro!).

Empecé el 2018 sintiendo más confianza y sintiéndome más sexy. Siento que soy dueña de mi cuerpo, mis pensamientos y todo lo que entra y sale de mí. Soy dueña de mis defectos, hago bromas acerca de ellos y no me afecta para nada. Puedo pararme al lado de una modelo en una sesión de fotos y sentir que su cuerpo y el mío, ambos dos, están perfectamente bien.

Podríamos decir que arranqué el año con el pie correcto ♥.

Links à la Mode, February 8th, 2018

SPONSOR: Shopbop, Rachel Comey, Tibi Tops, Alexander Wang Bags, Flora Nikrooz, LGR, F.R.S For Restless Sleepers, Fanny Packs, Sequin Dresses, Mixed Metal Jewelry, Men’s Salvatore Ferragamo


  1. Girl, I’m totally with you. What a great post! I feel like I’ve started the year feeling a similar way to you. I want to find ways to ‘be better’ and to share those things on my blog. We don’t need more of the same….the blogging world has become saturated with sameness. The blogs I come back to are the ones that have a genuine voice and yours is one of those. Keep it up, even if it’s not nine times….two times is just fine.

    1. Aww, thank you so much for your comment! I honestly don’t try hard to be different; otherwise I wouldn’t be blogging at all 😛 I just try to give people what I need sometimes as well: more than just a “look at the cute sweater I got”. There’s nothing wrong with those, but I think blogging and even microblogging were made to forge connection and community, and how can you do that when you don’t insert some depth into the conversation? ^^.

  2. Love this outfit… Your photography is so great, and loving your writing too! I also get such a rush from the creativity and just sheer fun of blogging! I just started my blog in September of last year, so it’s new. But I’m not new to blogging, and I’ve really enjoyed it so much lately!!


  3. Great outfit, great photos & great post! Well written and thought provoking. Im glad you are feeling sassy in yourself! Nothing better than seeing a women feel comfortable in their skin. I love it. This was one of the reasons I started following your blog. As long as you are producing content you are proud of and happy with, who cares when its posted. It took me about 3 days to get my recent post up, but im glad because of the way it turned out! Im a firm believer in everything happens for a reason.

    Hayley xx

    1. Aww, thank you so much Hayley! <3333. I try to be consistent, but sometimes life happens or I just don't have the inspiration to write/take photos. I'd rather wait a few days than just pop up with an outfit post saying "i love my sweater" 😛

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